A guy recently wrote to the editor of a local daily seeking advice concerning a confusing situation he finds himself in. The girl he initially fancied rejected him. When developed interest in her friend, she started throwing major shades. Here is his letter.
I am a guy aged 19 and I completed my KCSE last year. I have been spending quite some time with a girl I fancy, named Grace. When I declared my feelings for her, she rejected me and insisted she doesn't feel the same way. We agreed to remain friends.
I soon noticed one of her friends named Stella, who isn't as good looking as Grace but whose company I really enjoy. We started spending time together and soon I propositioned her for a date, but she wasn't sure because she didn't want to upset her friend Grace, as they had spoken about me.
What I didn't expect Stella to do was to tell Grace about my proposition. I was shocked to receive an angry text message from Grace warning me to "leave Stella alone."
Now, I didn't understand why she would say such a thing after she turned me down. We weren't dating, and if Stella didn't want me, she could tell me so herself, I told myself.
I persisted with Stella and we went out on our first date recently. What unfolded next was dramatic. Grace took to Facebook to lash out at Stella (without naming her), saying she "claims to be a friend, but sees nothing wrong with taking other people’s property."
Within a short time, she added another post, saying, “...and they show no shame, they who steal other people’s men. So much for friends.”
Grace's strange behavior has left both me and Stella confused. What exactly does she want? I am confused. Please help!
Your sincerely, James.
What would you advise James to do?
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